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Losing a parent is tough. The good stories sustain us when we cannot call them and hear their voices. I am so sorry, Mark.

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A touching tribute to your father, Mark. He will never be far from you in spirit. The donut shop photo was special. I can see your father's likeness in you. Please accept my sincerest condolences.

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Thank you, K.C. Donuts are Starlin family tradition. 🤓

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23 hrs agoLiked by Mark Starlin

Beautifully done, Mark! 💚💚💚

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Thank you, Jack.

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Oct 7·edited Oct 8Liked by Mark Starlin

You loved this man, and this was a truly heartfelt eulogy, Mark. He was a great guy and will be sorely missed. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. The school report was delightful, and I could actually smell the popcorn here at my table while reading.

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Thank you, Sharron. Popcorn nights were the best! 🤓

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Beautiful, Mark, thank you for sharing and my condolences on your loss. I'm a stone's throw from many of the locations you mentioned in Michigan. I drive through Ypsi on my way to work in Ann Arbor. It's a small world sometimes.

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Thank you, Brian. Ypsilanti and Ann Arbor were my stomping ground growing up.

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Mark, the pictures you shared capture the heart of your memories so beautifully—it’s amazing how a single photo can keep the past alive. Your tribute truly honors your dad, from Saturday popcorn nights to those simpler times with only three TV channels. Through your words and images, it feels like he’s still here, reminding us how powerful those moments with family really are.

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Thank you, Coleen. That was my hope. 🤓

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Oct 7Liked by Mark Starlin

That was beautiful Mark such great memories of your dad, keep those forever in your ❤️ And your right it’s not goodbye , it’s “see you later” Jeff and I are praying for you and your mom and family.

Hugs, Terey

PS I remember popcorn nights too the BEST!

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Thank you, Terey. We have "popcorn and movie nights" when my grandsons spend the night.

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Carrying on the tradition I love that :)

Come to think of it when my grandsons were in Reno we did the same however they are more ice cream kinda guys :)

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Oct 7Liked by Mark Starlin

Prayers for the upward journey, Mark.

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Thanks, Adrian. 🤓

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This memorial was fantastic! My condolences to you and your family.

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Thank you, Richard. 🤓

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My condolences. What a lovely remembrance. Also, if you still live in Michigan, we're neighbours. It's only about 90 minutes to 2 hours to a border crossing, depending on which one you pick, from my home in southwestern Ontario. Long live The Friendly Giant!

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Oct 7·edited Oct 7Author

Thanks, David. I live in North carolina now. But my Mom is still in Ypsilanti, Michigan, which is about a 30-minute drive from the border of Ontario via Detroit.

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Oct 7Liked by Mark Starlin

I am so sorry for your loss and am familiar with how you are feeling. But also, this may be one of my fave things you have written and shared ever. The pain will always be there, but lessens and becomes a part of who you are. You will cherish those memories, but they can also be sneaky; hitting you at the most inopportune times. My heart understands what your heart feels.

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Thank you, Cyn. We all suffer the loss of loved ones eventually. I appreciate your kind words. 🤓

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Oct 7Liked by Mark Starlin

I’m sorry for your loss, and happy to know you had your dad for a good long while. And indeed, you’ll see him again.

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Thank you, Lillian. He did have a good, long life. 🤓

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My father just turned 88.

Your tribute today brought a smile to my Monday. I also felt tears pricking my eyes.

Thank you for sharing your dad with us Mark. ❤️

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That is very kind. Cherish those moments with your Dad. 🤓

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Mindfully doing my best!

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Oct 7Liked by Mark Starlin

Nice tribute. Thanks, Mark.

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Thank you, Ron. 🤓

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Very touching. We should all hope to be loved and remembered. So sorry for your loss.

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Thanks, JoJo and Barrie. All we really have are memories and love. 🤓

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💛💛

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Oct 7Liked by Mark Starlin

Great story but even better, wonderful memories. You were lucky to have such a wonderful father.

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Thank you, Maria. 🤓

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