"Retire? Won't You Get Bored?"
Nope. I have a plan.
I officially retired on August 29th of this year.
When I told people I was retiring, many of them asked, “Won’t you get bored?” I laughed and said, “I have enough hobbies and interests—plus yardwork—to last three lifetimes. I doubt I will be bored much.”
Another common question was, “Won’t you miss work?” For me, work has always been a means to support my family and purchase the things I wanted. I have enjoyed some jobs and disliked others, but they were always jobs. I don’t miss work.
Some people asked, “What are you going to do once you retire?” That was the tough one to answer. No one really wanted to hear me ramble off a list of my interests, hobbies, and projects, so I usually kept it brief and just mentioned a few.
It might be nice to be one of those people who are obsessed with one thing (like writing), so I could focus on it during retirement. “I’m going to write a novel!” But that is not the case. Music was my first obsession, and I have continued to pick up others along the way. And, of course, I still have those pesky daily tasks of life that take me away from my creative passions.
Plus, I am married, and I would like to keep it that way. So I devised a plan.
Accomplish one thing per day.
This is my retirement goal. I am not talking about monumental accomplishments like climbing Mt. Everest or running a marathon. I mean realistic things like grocery shopping, getting rid of something (I have too much stuff), writing a story or song, going on a power walk, etc. I hope all the little things will eventually add up to getting a lot done.
I have some bigger short-term goals, such as releasing an album of original vocal songs, but accomplishing one thing per day is my long-term strategy for retirement.
I realize there will be days when I won’t accomplish anything. That is alright. This is a goal, not a rule. I hate rules. And I realize that, as I age, I won’t be able to do as much physically. I have far less energy and strength than I did when I was a young man. Or even in my 50s. But that is life. You can complain about it or accept it and do what you can.
My Report Card
Friday was a productive day. I cleaned a bathroom, vacuumed the house, and swept the floor. I also wrote this essay in my head while cleaning sticks and leaves off the yard.
Saturday and Sunday, my wife and I drove three hours each way to visit our daughter’s family. I will count that as an accomplishment.
Monday, I power walked the old-age soreness out of my hips, went grocery shopping, reorganized two kitchen cupboards, wrote a song, and practiced with a friend for an upcoming livestream.
After two months of retirement, I am reasonably confident that I won’t get bored or miss working. I feel like I haven’t even scratched the surface of what I want to do.
If you are retired, what have you been up to?
If you are not yet there, what is your plan?
Thanks for reading and responding. You make it fun.
Mark




What I love about your plan is how reasonable and achievable it is. Also lots of freedom. Goals not rules—yes.
Way to go, Mark! If you stop moving after retirement, your lifespan shortens, or so I've been told.
I will probably never retire fully. Old preachers keep on going until they run out of words.